Posts tagged ‘church’

February 9th, 2011

Using an interpreter: What not to do.

I’ve recently taken up doing something that will probably drive me bananas.

A small education about interpreters, ADA, and why taking sign language classes does not mean you can interpret.

It is against the law to offer anything unless you are willing to make it accessible to everyone. That’s why there are ramps to most stores, and guide dogs are allowed in places of business.

Something a lot of people may not realize though is that this law (The ADA, or Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990) also stipulates that any place of business must hire interpreters if the Deaf client needs one for communication. This applies to hospitals, companies, schools, and pretty much any place that is not a “non-profit” organization. If you make money doing it, then you are required to make it accessible. Sometimes this means Deaf people are discriminated against, because hiring an interpreter is expensive. The average hourly rate for an interpreter varies, but generally it can be between $30 – $50. (I’m not in this price range, but I’m also not up to “average” yet, as I haven’t been doing this very long).

The reasons for hiring an interpreter vary. For doctors it may be tempting to pull in the nurse from down the hall who took a few sign language classes. Unfortunately, much like some one who has taken a few German or Spanish classes, having a vocabulary does not mean you can speak the language. ASL is a very different language from English. It has its own nuances and grammatical structure, translating between the two nuances can be very difficult.

One example I can think of is, if you were at the Doctor and they said “Your prognosis is not good, you may want to get your affairs in order.” What would that mean to you? In English, it means you’re probably going to die. Soon. But, translate this sentence in signs (with out taking into account the nuances of ASL) and you might just be telling the Deaf person that literally “this future is not good” (which could mean a large multitude of things) and the phrase “Get your affairs in order” does not exist in ASL. So you would be telling them to do what? Organize their life? Translating word-for-word is not the same as interpreting. A professional interpreter would be able to handle a situation like this, leaving the Deaf person with the appropriate message.

Consider the language we use in English. In colleges, doctors’ offices, banks, and churches. The language used in each of these venues varies greatly. You would never hear some one say “Jesus is the light.” in a doctor’s office, where as you would never ask some one is they’ve taken any drugs recently (“drugs”, by the way is difficult to interpret because to hearing people this could mean prescription, OTC, and illegal drugs, where as in ASL there isn’t a sign to cover these categories together, so it requires listing. Should the interpreter not include a label the include “cough syrup” the Deaf person might not think it counts in the list. Tricky Tricky.).

In Tennessee, before moving to Virginia, I did a bit of Church interpreting. Not for my own church, but at a local non-denominational church. I was paid for my work as well. Much like if the church needed to hire a plumber, they wouldn’t expect the plumber to come in a work for free – interpreting is my job. It puts a toll on my mind, and on my hands and elbows.

What I really wanted to talked about before I started ranting on about being an interpreter:

I know that my church does not pay interpreters. Some churches are not considered non-profit because the pastor (or other people involved in the management of the church) are paid by the money collected during offerings. The LDS church though is non-profit. The money they collect through offerings and tithing goes towards helping the community, and helping during disasters. The people “in-charge” of the chuch (bishops, stake presidents, etc.) are not paid for the services. This also means that the LDS church is not required to provide interpreters.

This is a bad thing. A very bad thing. Very very very bad. For many reasons.

  1. They take volunteers. Now generally, I am all for volunteering. Considering I currently volunteer 3 hours every Sunday to interpret, I can’t say volunteering (the action) is bad. But sometimes, when you rely on volunteer… you get what you pay for. Many of the interpreters I have worked with at church are under-qualified, and not really able to do the job well.
  2. They expect too much. Three hours is a very very very long time. The Deaf people we are working with are used to using interpreters, and have come to expect that they can say “I prefer *this type* of sign language” and that’s what they get. If you have little experience in interpreting, you probably don’t know the different modes of sign language, and even if you do… it is stressful.
  3. They don’t give you anything to prepare with. Where I work now I get the outline for the meetings the day before the meetings. I am able to prepare, and perform better because of it.
  4. They don’t know how to use an interpreter. An interpreter is a tool. This is a problem in this church setting for three reasons.
    1. Volunteer interpreters don’t know their place in this process. It is not appropriate for an interpreter to interject their own thoughts into a conversation they are interpreting.
    2. If I am focused on translating from one language to the next language with the best of my ability, I am focusing on the conceptual meaning, and not on the spiritual meaning. This defeats the purpose of me going to church. I do not leave feeling spiritually uplifted, rather I leave feeling worn out. I don’t get to listen to, and internalize, the meaning of the lessons taught because I am too busy processing the words in a different way. The sense of community is lost to me because I am bust being some one else’s ears and voice. If I am there to interpret I can’t be in the hallway meeting people when the Deaf person is in the classroom, waiting on me to make it accessible. And vice versus.
    3. People don’t know how to use interpreters. This is a matter of education. When a hearing person is communicating with a Deaf person, they should be looking at the Deaf person. They should talk to the Deaf person. They should say “How are you?” instead of saying to the interpreter: “Ask them how they are doing.” or “Tell him I said….” or “Tell her that this is happening.” Some Deaf person can read lips, and combine that with the signs they are seeing. If you are turning your head, it makes it difficult for them. It is also rather demeaning to the Deaf person. I also hate the the other interpreters will go searching the building for the Deaf people. THEY ARE GROWN ADULTS! If the interpreter goes to Sunday school, and the Deaf person wants to go to Sunday school… they will. It is not our job to coral them into the room.
  5. Interpreters are held to certain standards. If a Deaf person tells me “My husband didn’t come to church because he’s sick.” I can’t say anything. If I were a friend, and the Deaf person and I were just chatting and she told me that, and then some one asked me later “why wasn’t Mr. XYZ here today” then I could say, “oh, his wife said he’s sick.” But as an interpreter, I would not be allowed to answer that question. Interpreters are held under the same type of client confidentiality that Doctors are, but even more so. Even by court order I can not divulge what I have interpreted, or anything shared between myself and the client, because, had the person been hearing and not Deaf, I wouldn’t have been there. I am expected to turn down jobs I know I cannot do, I am expected to respect confidentiality, I am expected to not be involved in whatever activity I am interpreting in. This means that, as an interpreter, if the Sunday School teacher asks me a question, I’m supposed to decline. It is distracting, and difficult for me to interpret and speak at the same time any way.

This situation is unfair to both parties involved. The Deaf people are not receiving the quality of interpret that they deserve, and thus they are not getting out of the situation what they potentially could. On the other hand if the interpreter is under-qualified then they are being given too much responsibility, and too much stress. If they are qualified then they are being used, and under appreciated. The interpreters are also missing out on valuable lessons and community that they deserve.

I have recently had to start attending church TWICE (that’s 6 hours of church) because I am not getting anything spiritual out of the situation.

I know this sounds really whiny – but to be honest, it’s a huge challenge for me. Having struggled a lot with elements of the church in the last few years, before moving up to Virginia we had been attending church very sporadically. Moving up here was good for me, and motivating. I was really starting to enjoy church again. But now I am torn between continuing to reconnect with my religion, and doing a good job at interpreting.

December 4th, 2010

What do you think?

As you read this, please do so with an open mind. I’m not saying “this is bad” – just thinking through some things.

I think a lot of the church rules are a little insulting to people.

Now before any one gets up in arms, let me explain. I don’t think that the “right” thing is the same thing for every one, and I believe that with free willand self conrol people have life “good” lives. As a logical human being I can see that alcohol and drugs are bad for my body – so why do I need rules telling me not to partake of them? I can see the health and psychological benefits of waiting until your married to have sex (because if you didn’t know, sex leads to babies. I think if you’re not willing to potentially have a baby, you shouldn’t be having sex, because even the best BC fails sometimes, but that’s a different post). I am guided by morals and ethics that I have learned through life experience.

So from there, I have two things that bother me. One being that these “guidelines” (rules, revelation, what every you want to call them) can seem very strict, and two being that people tend to analyze the guidelines, determine what they think it means, and then apply it to every one else.

When I was 11 I was at the chapel after a rehearsal with the orchestra for Fiddler on the Roof. It was the same night that President Hinckly gave a speech to the youth. I wasn’t technically a youth yet, but I stood at the very back of the cultural hall and listened while I waited for my Mom to come pick me up. In this talk he outlined some standards for the youth – one of them being that girls should only have one pair of earings.

Now listen to me internet. I had two pairs! My mom had my ears pierced as an infant and my holes had grown wonky, so she took me to get another set pierced so that the pairs would line up again. Was I bad person because I had two holes in each of my ears? Was I a sinner? Did my young soul really need tormenting over how many earings I had in my ears? The general “guideline” would’ve been “no extremes in style” – but the church went further. They got very very specific, and that rubs me the wrong way.

The second thing I mentioned was people applying their own interpretations of these church guidelines to everyone. A friend of mine recently went vegetarian – she and her husband wanted to eat more ethically, but because they could not afford organic meat in their budget they decided to become vegetarian. After a request for recipe suggestions on facebook (oh the drama), many of her family and friends decided to inform her that being a vegetarian is against the Word of Wisdom, and the heckled her about it. HELLO!?!?!!?!? Really people? Americans, who for the majority don’t know what “eating in season” actually entails and couldn’t tell you what time of year cantaloupe are “in-season”, and for people who probably do not eat meat sparingly (all things explicitly stated in the WoW), these people sure had gall to pick on this girl who was trying to do what she thinks is the right thing! Just because he interpretation was different people felt entitled to helping her “Choose the Right” – but as I pointed out before, I think what is right varies from person to person.

Of course, I understand that these are meant to guide us in living happy, fulfilling lives. But to that I would say, what satisfies you in life might not be what satisfies me.

I dunno. This is still a work in progress. It just seems like sometimes rules are superfluous, and then people are “good” because they are seeking some reward (heaven?) and not because they just want to be good people.

My brain hurts.

October 13th, 2010

oh bother…

I’m not sure what percentage of my readers are LDS, and though I don’t typically write about religion, it has definitely been at the fore front of my mind. All over facebook I have seen people commenting, arguing, and bashing over a recent talk given at the church’s semi-annual General Conference. The one by Boyd K. Packer. Where he repeats the same things the church has been saying for many many years. He address, with out specification, gay marriage. I know this is a touchy subject for some people, but no that there is no malice in my voice as I write this.

I’ll be honest – I was left with a bad taste in my mouth.

I know the church believes these things, but I also know that it was perceived as very discriminatory, and in bad taste what with the recent suicides. Elder Packer compares voting for gay marriage, to voting against the law of gravity.

And here is where I stand:

I don’t care, but I don’t discriminate. Just because person A makes promises to person B does not mean that the promises I made at my wedding are any less valuable or important. The LDS church also believes that it is the only true church, but I don’t see them going around saying other people can’t call their worship center a church. To me, it is semantics. If homosexual people want to get “married” then why can’t they? We talk about temple marriage as a covenant – because THAT is what it is about. It is not about the legal papers, or these earthly words that people spew out. It’s not about the “I promise to love you through sickness and health” either. MY marriage is about my covenants, and my neighbor’s marriage was about getting legally hitched before their baby was born. Lol, to be honest that seems a little more degrading to the ideals of marriage, than two people who really love and care about each other making a commitment to honor respect and support each other for the rest of their lives.

I know – this is really deep stuff, but it has been on my mind a lot. There are deeper issues to this situation, the whole nature vs. nurture thing, and a bucket of other issues. I’m not going to go there.

The church PR team released a statement in response to the Human Rights Commission. And in it, they say what I said to begin with. This is not new information. It is an untimely presentation, but nothing new. This is a church about love – God’s love. Something that is so often spoken about, but not acted upon nearly enough. It’s kind of like a piece of gum. It has helped remove the bad taste in my mouth, but I am still thinking about it. I am still bothered, still perturbed, but what all of this shows is that we are a church of human beings. People who over look things, who don’t consider hard enough, or long enough. People who coincidently hurt other peoples’ feelings. And it just shows that every one, even the upper leaders of this church, have things they can improve upon.

I don’t know that I would ever sport a bumper sticker shouting “I SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGE” – but mostly because I don’t believe in putting stickers on cars, it’s bad for the paint. Among my family and friends I think I am in the minority on this position, but I hope that people take time to consider WHY they feel the way they do about these issues. And if the reason is “because XYZ says so” (that could be the bible, God, church, your Mom, a teacher), then look a little deeper inside. Just like some one attending a different “church” does not invalidate or demean my understanding of church, some one else getting married does not invalidate, nor demean my marriage.

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July 11th, 2010

Happy Sunday!

Tomorrow B-man is going into work, like… really. So I will be staying home, doing nothing. Which means I will be able to really blog. Or I might be going to Ikea… and then really blogging. lol. I haven’t decided yet. In the meantime, I wanted to share another guest post I wrote for Jenna over at That Wife.

This second one, as much as it is about religion, it is also about my own personal struggles to find some kind of worth in my life. I talk about my struggles with depression a little bit, and of course, I talk about B-man. Feel free to check it out!

Part Un
Part Deux

And there you have it – the magnitude of my French. lol. I did take two years of French, if you would believe that. But… I would definitely still be the last person to ask for a translation. Unless you need something translated into American Sign Language. Then call me up.

July 4th, 2010

I’m being featured…

Happy Independence Day!

I’m not really doing much because my husband is out of town, and I’m afraid my dogs will pee themselves if I leave them home with no one to comfort them through the fire works.

Hmmm… that wouldn’t be fun.

Any who doodle…

I don’t really talk about religion a lot on my blog. I don’t have anything against talking about religion, it’s just not one of the many topics I cover on my blog. Regardless, Jenna, over at That Wife is featuring me today. Why would she be doing that? I know, it sounds kind of crazy. What’s so special about a girl named Jessica?

Haha… nothing really…

Except that I am Mormon. And FYI. When you read that sentence, nothing about me changed – you just know a little bit more about where I’m coming from. I know every one wants to think they are unique – but to be honest, my story is rather different from the average LDS convert.

Once you’ve read the story, this will make a little bit more sense. Since I grew up going to different churches, I really am very open-minded. I am not afraid to question things I hear in church, and I am open to the opinions of those around me. I love the idea in Judiasm that the relationship between God and man is equal, and thus, people can be angry @ God, and vice versa. I like the Native American ideas that we are connected to the earth, along with the idea of Yin and Yang and the constant need for everything to be balanced. I do what works for me. What makes me feel closer to God, and what makes me feel like a better person.

For me, that is being Mormon, and having a two-way relationship with God. For me that is holding on to my Native American ancestry, and feeling the connection everything on this earth has. And if tomorrow, I meet up with a Buddhist monk and he says something that touches my soul, and teaches me something new… I’ll keep it.

Please don’t apply those common Mormon myths and stereotypes to me. Because they don’t fit, and it just won’t work.

So, head on over there, and read my life story – if you dare. I tried to keep my funny puns to a minimum… I think Jenna’s readers are a little more refined than I tend to be! lol.

PS: If you have any questions, feel free to ask them. Leave it in a comment, or use the button in my side bar to go to my formspring and ask it anonymously.

February 5th, 2007

GET UP!

I slept through my alarm this morning and missed the first hour and a half of church. I can’t get there fast enough for it to be worth it.

I really need to fix this whole alarm problem. I seem to not wake up to my alarms, or I turn them off with out waking up. GAH!

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November 2nd, 2006

What does that meeeeean?

“God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change the courage to

change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference…”

I had decided not to go to church tonight. But then some one called and said they

were going to pick me up and take me.

I don’t know whether or not to find this person’s actions rude, or consider it a sign.

I am not very objective, because what I want fully depends on me and what I think.

I wish I had no feelings.

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October 30th, 2006

Yesterday

Yet again I got in….extremely late last night. It seemed like the numbers worked out nicely last time, so I shall try that again!

  1. Yesterday when I got back I went to bed around 7:30 or 8, and then I slept for an hour. It wasn’t like, relaxing sleep, because I had to wake up in time to be at the church by 10 in the morning (so leaving at 9:30, so being awake by nine….) and so it was more of a closing my eyes and trying to just relax a bit, even if I wasn’t sleeping.
  2. At nine I woke up, got church clothes on and went to the church. There was another baptism of one of of my friends, and so I went to support her. She’s this tiny cute little girl (except she’s in her lower 20′s) and she is SO happy all the time. I like her a lot, and I knew she would be disappointed if I didn’t show up. Lol, she was so happy to see me that she ran out of the picture they were trying to take to ‘tackle’ me…..i guess is how to describe it. :P
  3. After the baptism we chilled for a little bit, then I had to get my car washed because I parked under a tree and had these tiny little seeds stuck all over my car, and I ended up paying $60 to get it all taken off. Which is kind of sucky, but they cleaned the inside really good too. lol. eh. I’m not going to think about it.
  4. After that I was supposed to go to a Halloween party at 3, and I had planned on getting there around 5:30, cause it was going to last until 6, but I decided not to. (Cause I was asleep, and each time my alarm went off, I would set it for later, and I finally just turned it off.)
  5. Tonight for the football game they were supposed to go to this one guy’s house, but instead we decided to go to Kelsey’s house (because there were no adults there….lol. It’s her grandparent’s house, but they were out of town….) The game started at 7:45, and I left my dorm at 7:45 and got there around 8:15 (cause I got lost, it should of only taken me 15 minutes, but oh well. We ate food and watched Tennessee win at South Carolina! WOOT! It was a good game to watch, and a lot of fun to just hang out with every one. I really enjoyed it.
  6. After the game most people left, we ended up with Me, Kelsey, Matt, Brian and Lyndsi there and we watched a movie (She’s the Man) and just sort of laid around. I love hanging out with these people. Even doing nothing is cool! lol.

Last night I ended up getting home around 3:30, but it was really 2:30 because of daylight savings…so all is good. This morning I am going to church twice…well…sort of. I am going to sacrement meeting, and then sunday school, and then I am going to MY sacrement meeting, and then I will be off like a mad man to go get ready for my concert!!! lol. I am expecting quite a few of my friends to show up, but I’m not getting my hopes TOO high. In any case, my concert is at for, we are performing Mozart’s Requiem and Ave Verum (both Mozart pieces, the first being 51 minutes in length) and then I will probably go back to my dorm and SLEEP!!! lol. Something I haven’t gotten much of this weekend, but that is honestly ok to me, because I had an awesome time!


Me….and my hair…lol. It may not look like much, but it’s fluffy!

MORE LATER….

I will be putting up the rest of my pictures after church/concert. :P